They say two is better than one.

In horseback riding, nothing can be truer.

It's not that two people should ride the horse - well, unless you want to do that too. It's more about how the efforts of two people combine to make to make the riding experience better for the horse - as well as the rider.

There is no replacement for an educated eye on the ground. Add willingness, compassion and resourcefulness to your ground person, and almost every riding situation can be improved thanks to both your efforts. The ground person might be your instructor or not. The prerequisite is that you both work toward the same goal, one from the back of the horse, and the other from the ground.

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Here are five reasons why two people are better than one.

1. Calm the horse and/or the rider.

Has this ever happened to you? Your ride has been going just fine. Then, after passing the same corner of the arena multiple times, your horse decides that his life will end the next time he heads over there. At that moment, your trusty ground person walks over to the corner and protects your horse just by standing there and using a calm tone of voice as you ride by.

The ground person can also be your calming factor. If you feel anxious, unsure or tentative, the ground person can be an excellent source of information and inspiration - the type that reassures and challenges at each turn. If you feel confident, your person can push you to reach higher goals, encouraging you to step just that little bit out of your comfort zone.

2. Increase impulsion.

Your ground person can also be a motivator to help your horse put in that missing bit of "oomph" needed to complete a movement. Although the rider can do much from the horse's back to achieve impulsion and engagement, many horses respond nicely to a ground person. The right body language and verbal cues given in the right moment might be all that is needed to gently coax the horse into working more from the hind end.

3. Set up and take down equipment.

This is when the ground person is irreplaceable! If a person is willing to move equipment during your ride, you can be free to train your horse rather than worry about getting off to readjust things. The ground person can re-set anything that was knocked down or pushed over while you negotiated the obstacle. She can change the level of difficulty as your horse develops the confidence after several repetitions. She can change patterns according to how the ride is going.

4. Give visual feedback.

One of the difficulties of riding (especially without mirrors) is that while you ride, you receive very little visual feedback. While you can see the head and neck of the horse, everything behind you is limited to your ability to feel results. The ground person can be the visual feedback you are missing. She can let you know if you and your horse are straight, if the movement you tried was successful, and what your horse looks like. She can let you in on details such as if your horse is crossing the legs in the leg yield or if the halt was square. Of course you should be able to feel such things eventually, but getting that immediate feedback can help develop your accurate feel and prevent problems from occurring in the first place.

5. Motivate each other.

Sparks fly when two motivated people have a chance to "bounce off" one another! When one person has an idea, the other can take it to another level by adding their piece to it. The same thing can happen when riding horses. Problem-solving becomes easier, brainstorming is quicker, the energy is enthusiastic and positive. One idea leads to another and soon enough, goals are reached and obstacles are overcome.

When two people "ride" one horse, the whole environment changes. Teamwork is useful in all aspects of life, but when done effectively during a ride, the horse is the one that benefits. And the horse's well-being should always  be our primary intention.

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  1. My sister and I have owned one horse together for almost 14 years now. I think we are a golden combination. I correct her, she corrects me. We learn from each other and we both have a positive but different influence on our horse. We now have a very sweet, well-balanced horse that is also very eager to work and learn. Our horse goes out on the pastry every day, but we have a very efficient time-schedule. This way, when one of us is too busy or on holiday for a week, the other one can take over 🙂

  2. I recently began riding seriously after several years away from riding. My neighbor offered to help me and my horse and her help makes such a difference! I was often tense and her suggestions brought immediate good results. We are doing so well. I would still be struggling to find the answers that were so easy to correct with the right eyes to help me.

  3. A ground person whose only role is to call 911 if you are injured in a fluke accident is also essential. Lying on tge ground for hours after an acccident can be fatal.
    Ride safe!

  4. My friend (a new rider) just bought a Mustang from a woman who is one of those natural, terrific riders. That woman never had a lesson in her life but rides like a professional. Now, I’m trying to teach my friend but the poor horse is so confused with me standing in the center of the arena!!! He keeps stopping and turning into me! Yes, it’s a good thing to train horses with other people around!

  5. How easily would a horse become dependent on that person on the ground increasing impulsion? I have to help beginner riders sometimes with that – but that’s on schooled horses, when the beginners are still learning. But if there was someone on the ground at every session encouraging the horse on, wouldn’t he become dependent on it?
    But number 3 and number 4 – oh definitely!! The luxury of having someone else to rearrange your jumps! 😀
    Awesome blog 🙂

  6. I love getting together with a like minded horse friend and boucing new ideas and theories off each other as well as giving riding feedback and all the other benefits you mentioned!

  7. For te visual feed back, you can use your shadow as well depending on the time of day. I do this a lot when i ride on my own