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Do you regularly find yourself explaining/educating/justifying/rationalizing/defending your "horse habit"?

Do your parents/friends/co-workers/brother's children mock your passion and belittle the time, energy and effort you put into your beloved equine?

Then this article is for you!

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Simply send the link to the offending person and encourage them to read through the following horse riding myths.

Although (from personal experience) it is usually very difficult to teach a skeptical person the method behind the equine madness, perhaps a little list outlining the most commonly-held falsehoods will begin to point them in the right direction!

1. Horse riding is for the rich.

How many people do you know who worked their way to one riding lesson a week? Some of us cleaned tack, scooped poop, groomed and tacked up horses for other riders! Then, some of us who bought horses into adulthood did so with careful budgeting plans, sharing our horses through part-boards and maybe even giving up on our own personal comforts to find the most affordable boarding situations we could find.

It is true that the bill on horse maintenance can be limitless depending on what you want, but look carefully and you will find many average earners with average jobs with an above-average passion for equines.

2. Horseback riding is easy.

We've already discussed this topic in our musings about what "they" say about horseback riding, so I'm going to cut to the chase and say it: horseback riding is NOT easy. Just getting on, allowing an animal six times our size dictate where we go when and coordinating the body sufficiently to not fall off is enough of a feat in itself.

Making it look easy is even more  of a challenge, and most of us spend our entire riding lives perfecting our skills to do just that. The riders who appear as if they are just floating along while the horse does all the work are precisely the ones who are busting a gut and sweating behind the scenes.

3. Horses require very little care.

It is true that horses can be left to fend for themselves and possibly even thrive in a grassy pasture. But watch and learn over a few seasons to discover that at the minimum, the pasture needs maintenance. The horses need fresh water and grooming. Once the pasture dries out/runs out/grows over, the horses will soon need hay supplemented to their grazing area.

Add to that any expectation for performance, and you will notice that the horse will need regular handling and training, better grooming, improved feed for a more balanced nutrition and better overall general health care and worming. Showing adds even more requirements: a regular vaccination and general health schedule, a higher quality of muscling and sheen to the coat, neater tails and manes and better behavior.

Committing to caring for and riding horses is not a task to be taken lightly. It does add up in time!

4. Horses are like dogs but bigger.

This one takes very little time to figure out. Horses are prey animals and dogs are predators. Aside from being companions to humans, they are on opposite ends of the spectrum in terms of social dynamics and behavior. As prey animals, horses have a highly developed flight or fight instinct (mostly flight in our domesticated horses) and tend to be resistant to hanging around long enough to make detailed observations about a threatening situation.

Horses respond differently to humans as leaders and communicate on a completely distinct level from dogs. Long-time dog owners switching over to horse ownership discover quickly that the cuddling, food-rewarded training techniques used on their dogs don't go very far on their horses. Soon enough, if they listen carefully, they learn a whole new language reserved especially for their equines!

5. Horses "love" people like we love them.

It takes time to learn to accurately interpret equine communication. What we think of as developing a loving attachment might not be exactly how the horse interprets it. Perhaps he connects with you because you have spent years developing a communication system that he is familiar and comfortable with. Perhaps he nickers and turns in your direction because he knows you will be feeding him shortly after your arrival to the barn!

Although so many books and movies have portrayed undying bonds between horses and their humans, don't be too disappointed if you begin to understand that the horse merely expects you to be another herd member! This is true and right and simply the way of the horse.

Share any other myths in the comment section below!

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  1. My Sir has always mocked my love for my Lady… I give her my love just as I do my kids.. He mocks me and says all ” horse ” women are nuts… But he loves it and knows its the caring loving part of me that this comes from. She is the best horse ever! She’s a chestnut quarter horse very common most people would say… But ya know she’s mine so it makes her Special. She’s taught me more then ill ever be able to teach her…. Horses teach you that you get out what you put in accept.. The money aspect.. Lol! They are hard work and a lot if compromise. I’ve enjoyed my time with her… ❤❤❤❤

  2. apparently whoever said caring for a horse or riding was easy only rode carasol horses, I had two horses for a while one in particular for 10 years and let me tell you a horse that is not a dead head will challenge your confidence and skill. walking through knee deep snow to water and feed especially up hill was definitly a challenge to say the least. lol

  3. “Never get off a horse when he does unwanted behavior or he’ll win”. I guess they mean “You lose”. Sometimes the smart thing is to get off and correct the behavior. Horses are not capable of plotting against you!

  4. ‘She’ll out grow it’. True Horseman don’t ever stop, you are born with them- in your blood, in your heart. Their energy is so pure it radiates clear through your body. It is the wild part of us we have been made to quell since youth. They are the watchers, knowing what we are taught to ignore.

  5. I’m glad you’ve debunked that first myth, ‘horse riding is for the rich’. I’ve had many friends growing up who worked their butts off at stables in order to earn their riding lessons or sessions. If it’s your passion, there’s a way for anyone to do it.

  6. I love riding English seat.. And built my dream horse farm just three years ago.. Now, its time to move … I love my horses… How will I ever let go?
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  7. I love this article! So many valid points!

    I agree that the majority of horses expect you to be one of the herd, rather than acting out of a feeling of love. However, I do not fully believe that mine does.

    I have a rare connective tissue disease that can leave me very weak, in excruciating pain and can cause my joints and bones to shift or dislocate. If I’m in pain or weak, he protects me from other horses and people. If my legs or body collapses, he’ll catch me to his own body’s hurt. If he’s afraid of something he’s spooked from and I go near it, he’ll “kill it” in my defense or shield me from it. If he’s hyper and wound up but I’m in pain or weak, he’ll calm himself and settle for two 20m circles at walk.

    He’s a driven, perfectionist athlete who made himself my therapy horse; by his own choice. He surprises me daily by continually putting his instincts behind my needs and choosing to put me first.

    Is that love or am I simply a different dynamic of a herd mate?

  8. Perhaps “Love” is not the correct word, but some horses show strong bonds with their owners–following every movement with their eyes, craning their necks to see when they are going to walk back around the corner, looking back if someone else leads them off. It is a desire to “be with” that looks an awful lot like fondness and sure feels like fondness when you are the fortunate recipient of it.

  9. I have to disagree with parts of this. There are a few horses who do like riding, if not necessarily being ridden, and they will cut cows when bored, or do the barrel pattern. Also, I do think that horses feel affection for their riders, if they have a strong bond. I can’t count the number of times my horse has saved me from potential harm at his own expense. He got a horn to the side once from a broken loose steer after it came inimy direction, and although horses may not feel love quite like we do, they definitely do share some form of connection with their riders.