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I can hear you now – you’re groaning… the path?? How can “the path” be fulfilling?

You might ask: doesn't “the path” translate to tedious repetitions, lack of acknowledgement or recognition, stumbling blocks, frustrations, steps backward more than forward, and all the other associated negativities that occur when something is practiced day-to-day, week-to-week?

What about the glory of the goal, the clear, final call of reaching the destination, the accolades and the photo finish? How about the sense of accomplishment, the personal gain, the reward of achievement?

Well, you’re right of course. Goal setting is paramount in all activities, especially if they are long-term and difficult to complete. Without a sense of where we want to go, there would be no ‘path’ to speak of. And we all require and crave (at some level) for a sense of recognition and a feeling of a job well done.

But in horse riding, the majority of the time is spent on the path itself. The achievement of goals are short and fleeting, maybe because the horse is a living and breathing entity unto himself, and he has opinions, desires and interests that may not match yours! It is well known that there is a horse somewhere, sometime, that will humble every person. I would argue that the lessons learned from those horses might be the most meaningful of all.

Often, those lessons are not technical in nature. Rather, they teach us about our ability to persevere, to be patient, to set aside personal desires and ego, and so many other deep lessons that are essential in developing wholeness of being and strength of character. They develop our very human-ness and sense of place in the world.

And so, the next time you find yourself stuck on an exercise, struggling to achieve your next desire, and falling flat on your face (hopefully not literally) despite all your effort and dedication, try to step back and see the whole picture. What path are you on? Where have you been and where are you now? How does your current place in the (horse) world fit with where you want to be? What can you do to take just one tiny step closer to the end goal?

And remember, as E. Joseph Cossman put it so well, "The best bridge between despair and hope is a good night's sleep." Sleep on it, and go at it again the next day.

And enjoy the path!

"Walker, there is no path, you make the path as you walk." ~Antonio Machado.

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3 Comments

  1. I have been on the path for 60 years! I started riding when I was 9. The older I get, the more fascinating it gets and the more I find there is to learn. I am always searching for more and I keep finding it. Keep up the good work with Horse Listening! I hope I get to meet you at some point!

  2. “Does this path have a heart? If it does, the path is good; if it doesn’t, it is of no use. Both paths lead nowhere; but one has a heart, the other doesn’t. One makes for a joyful journey; as long as you follow it, you are one with it. The other will make you curse your life. One makes you strong; the other weakens you.” –Carlos Castaneda

  3. Thank you for this beautiful reminder. currently I work in the small business arena, and similar to what it was like to study as a child, traversing the path has had more than one obstacle and hurdle to jump. The journey continues each day, and though at times it seems incredibly uncoordinated, there are those moments were the flow and everything seems to come together for that miraculous moment of success. Thank you for the reminder to keep doing the best everyday, with hopes of seeing success through.

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